Emotional Infidelity or Narcissistic Codependency?
2020Aug29: I've filed an informal Notice of Claim with the Marriage Tribunal for the Archdiocese because no matter which way it goes, we'll need the approval of the Marriage Tribunal. Whether it be Good, Bad, or Ugly, it'll still need to go through the Marriage Tribunal. Wargaming helps. So does certain Novelty, like The Frigid Faerie. Peace, and thanks for listening to my rants.. it helps me process.
Okay, I have really had it. The straw that broke the proverbial camel's back was my wife Skyping me from 2100 miles away as she's being PHYSICALLY SUPPORTIVE of her brother by "helping" him avoid the reasonably foreseeable consequences of his actions.. by patching the damage caused by his pounding holes in the walls to stop the neighbours from whispering about him. And EMOTIONALLY SUPPORTIVE by not letting him deal with the reasonably foreseeable consequences of being a total fucking tard.
I swear, he's doing this INTENTIONALLY to get some special time with my wife. Fuck you David, I'm nobody's cuck —metaphorical or not. Fuck you my dear, you have chosen to replace my role as your husband, with your "little" brother Leonidas Orozco.
He is bat-shit crazy, and his mother has repeated what he claims, innocently as she does, to people who questioned her when she was admitted to the hospital for Septic Shock, in 2018. Because she repeated what her son had reported to her (that there are drones surveilling their apartment, the there is a 24-hour surveillance team with a telephoto lens trained on their living room, and that the neighbours can be heard through the walls planning her son's murder) the hospital staff immediately detained her.
Because of her "visit" to the hospital, she left 6-10K in the care of her son, David. While she was in the hospital, I fought like hell for close to 2-months, on the phone every other day, eventually securing a negotiated release. When she returned home, she found that her son, David, had emptied her accounts, and LOST EVERYTHING in a "business venture gone bad"..
Subsequently, when my wife was visiting in the fall of 2019, she hurriedly alerted me:
Isaac, I need your help, I think I am correct in a- cting but I am saddened by it. My bro (David) just last night stole money from mom, I hate to do it but she is getting old and needs care and this costs money, and with him bleeding her dry they will end up in the poor house or on the str- eets.. Lies and falsehood, and this justifies him co- nstantly stealing from her?
So he steals from her when she's in the hospital, and he steals $1000+ from her when he wants to go out to the local strip joint or buy some wrapped sausage in a back alley. This writer is FURIOUS. Especially to see that his wife, someone who WAS the light of his life, has been providing Tender Loving Care such a fucking loser as Leonidas Orozco, even if he really is her brother.
And, she MISSED OUR GOD-DAMNED ANNIVERSARY last year, and, now she BRAGS to me how she's menstruating right now, and so thusly will be ovulating roundabouts Sep2-8. I had been BEGGING her to be back by Sep3, but she EVIDENTLY HAS TO SERVE KING LEONIDAS.
You fucking emotionally unfaithful bitch. You can stay with your brother, and grow old together. You'll even be LITERALLY wiping his ass as he grows old and needs diapers, not JUST cleaning his linens and rubbing talc on his ass every time he shits the bed (pejorative for doing something really stupid, like breaking down the walls to stop the voices in his head) and covering for his monumentally ABUSIVE nature.
I got your mum out of the Hospital. I protect and serve YOU, my wife. You leave me like a stray puppy so you can give your mommy and your 43-year-old mentally-ill brother a heaping helping of your tender loving care?
You're going to bring me a doggy bag with whatever you have left, to pacify your PART-TIME HUSBAND until you have to attend your evidently SUPERIOR emotional surrogate of your Mum & Brother?
Fuck you, bitch. I am nobody's cuck, and especially not your brother's emotional cuck. Your mum's fucking deaf as a bat because David insists that she wear headphones to listen to the TV, because it huwts his ears, right?
For all I know, you're doing more than plaster in them thar rooms...
PATCHING 30 FUCKING HOLES? IF THAT'S TRUE, LEONIDAS NEEDS TO BE PUT DOWN.
This is a composite of the videos, so you can watch them in sync.
Me on the left: I look like a dick, and I act like a really nasty cunt. I'm a wreck, and I cannot focus. I'm eating dinner while ranting, so you'll see some not so pretty bullshit. Fuck it.
My spouse on the right: She's beautiful and wonderful, but she takes me for granted and does not really give a shit if I live or die. Because, she'll always have her lifelong emotional surrogate, the 43-year-priority brother, and 80-year-old mother.. they supplant me, effectually. C'est la vie.
I DO NOT CARE. Yet, I'll probably regret this later, but a line needs to be drawn. It's been 86 days at the time of posting. I'm being essentially cuckolded by my wife's brother, who evidently gives her something her husband cannot. Maybe I should start destroying the apartment, like him?
My spouse: She's beautiful and wonderful, but she takes me for granted and does not really give a shit if I live or die. Because, she'll always have her lifelong emotional surrogate, the 43-year-priority. C'est la vie.
What to do when you're forcing your husband to time-share your affections with your brother and mother, and how to blame HUBBY for overreacting.
Me: I look like a dick, and I act like a really nasty cunt. I'm a wreck, and I cannot focus. I'm eating dinner while ranting, so you'll see some not so pretty bullshit. I don't deserve her, but I cannot tolerate this quasi-cuckdom. Does that make me a bad husband? Fuck it.
What to do when you're quasi-cucked (I'm being dehydrated) by wife's brother and mother, and how NOT to act.